Handling Adult Pressures while in Separation/Divorce
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Lunch time Discussion – 7th October 08
Topic
Moral values (particularly Christianity) don’t allow for a separated/divorced partner to get involved with another person unless they re-unite. How is each of the separated partners expected to survive?
Male Caller: Any of the two should not be involved with somebody else.
Male Caller: Before people get married, they should be counseled and advised to avoid such occurrences.
Male Caller: It’s a pity because some get married for specific reasons and when they achieve their goals, they don’t care what happens to the marriage.
Female Caller: Stay alone until the other partner dies before you can get involved with another one.
Male Caller: These people should work hard to make their marriage work. That is why separation is a highly recommended option to get some breathing space.
Female Caller: The problem is that people get married while they are too young. This means that we engage while playing time is not over.
Female Caller: Be patient with each other and stay together until one of you dies as agreed during marriage.
Male Caller: Love is not about Christianity but a stand alone. The wife should be allowed freedom to speak as she pleases in her home. This will empower her to express her concerns whenever she wants to, without fear.
Male Caller: There shouldn’t be any separation to married couples. The result of separation could be a result of forced marriage, such as getting married because the girl is pregnant.
